It's happened...
A short response to one of my first substacks.
(This post is a short response to an earlier substack, Click below to read the first installment. I will see you all next week after a short hiatus)
It has officially happened…
The next stage of life has begun. Not to sound completely self-absorbed, but this feels like the beginning of the end — at least when it comes to my life and friendships. The past is over. The nights spent getting drunk, going home with God knows who? That’s all behind us now… because, for the first time in my life, one of my friends is pregnant.
Yes, I sound overly dramatic — and no, I will not be less dramatic about this (nor will I say any of it out loud to my friends).
If you’re reading this: take advantage of the now. Of the version of your friendships that isn’t shaped by childcare or the logistics of finding a sitter just to go out.
Take advantage of the now.
Livia x




girl this isn’t dramatic at all! I feel SEEN going through these posts 😭😭😭 all 3 of my best friends have babies now can u imagine except me 🥴🫣 with no boyfriend in sight for now as well